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The dictionary defines self-control as the control of one's emotions, desires, or actions by one’s own will. (American Heritage Dictionary)
Psychology defines self-control as the exercise of internal control over one’s own actions through mental regulation, emotional management, goal setting, self-monitoring, and responsible choices. (Paul Wong, The Positive Psychology of Self-Control, www.meaning.ca/index.html)
For a Christian, the above definitions are only part of the truth.
For a Christian, self-control is the fruit of a relationship with God. It is not self-denial or asceticism, or anything that has its source in the natural man.
“There are nonbelievers who exhibit a certain kind of self-control, but such self-control is not biblical for it is not guided by the Holy Spirit speaking in the Bible. It does not flow from a regenerated heart that loves Jesus and it is not directed to the glory of God. For example, Napoleon, at the peak of his career, worked 18 hours a day, seven days a week. However, he lived for one thing only – the glorification of himself.” (Brian Schwertley, Christian Self-Control in an Age of Dissipation, www.reformedonline.com)
The starting point of biblical self-control in our lives is the new birth.
What is self-control?
- Biblical self-control is the control of the self-life from within by the grace of God and the power of the Holy Spirit.
"For the grace of God that brings salvation has appeared to all men. It teaches us to say “No” to ungodliness and worldly passions, and to live self-controlled, upright, and godly lives in this present age." (Titus 2:11, 12)
"But the fruit of the Spirit is…self-control." (Galatians 5:22, 23)
Self-control is not a work of the flesh but a work of the Holy Spirit. That is what distinguishes self-control for the Christian.
- Biblical self-control is the control of our attitudes, desires, and habits so that they do not control us.
"And everyone who competes in the games exercises self-control in all things. They then do it to receive a perishable wreath, but we an imperishable. Therefore I run in such a way, as not without aim; I box in such a way, as not beating the air; but I buffet my body and make it my slave." (I Corinthians 9:25-27)
- Biblical self-control starts on the inside and manifests on the outside.
The more internal control you have, the less external control you need.
(Continued next week)
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